An Exercise in Indirectly Hostile Personal Vindication

This soccer publication is oddly uninspiring, yet curiously irresistible. Even title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently belongs to a popular theatrical production, an future television program, and a public letter authored by the manager in 2021.

This version of Dear England isn’t formally tied to any of those. It represents an peculiar entry in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about leadership: a classically dry top-level coach trope that the author sticks to relentlessly, employing the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” no fewer than 500 times across the book’s entirety.

Themes Explored

“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? What knowledge do leaders possess?” he asks early on, setting out his argument, but declining to address “When are leaders?”, themes probably reserved for a follow-up publication.

Beyond that, this book features a notable absence at its core. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile personal vindication, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the actual thing, hopping adeptly from unresolved issue to raw emotion across a collection of graphs, management jargon and discussions about Thomas Cromwell.

Immersion

Reading it is like eavesdropping on your parents having a mannered but profoundly personal argument in the next room while you’re trying to pay attention on a professional workshop called “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also impossible to disengage, as Southgate keeps approaching to a topic you truly want to discover, before suddenly shifting focus.

Disclosures

There are inevitably controversial revelations in works of this nature, due to the rapt interest with leading the national team. The most notable instances are: the manager decided he was certainly going to step down as England manager after supporters hurled beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he came very close to forfeiting the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his players were racially abused; he invented the approach of specialist dead-ball trainers and the entire league in the English football is now copying him; he has now abandoned his enthusiasm for football, a surprising admission briefly included in a short passage at the final part.

Leading England through a era of rage, optimism, turmoil and confinement was a harsh journey. The scars are evidently still fresh.

Predictable Elements

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is saturated with an computer-generated word-sludge of commonplace guidance discourse. Copies of this book were provided with reviewers under secrecy pacts before publication, likely out of fear someone might disclose that “difficult conversations can, by their very essence, be tough”, that you should always consider the consequences, that guidance occurs where change intersects with understanding.

Sincere Expression

Readers will find nonetheless real sentiment present. Managing England through a time of anger, optimism, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a harsh experience. The bruises are clearly still raw, albeit expressed in a terminology-heavy reimagining of the traditional football manager theme: why I was actually right about all matters all along.

Detailed Instances

Even book’s opening passage, Trojan-horsed as gripping memories of the final of the European Championship, is completely dedicated to how effective Southgate really was at player changes (the big Southgate gripe centering on he was not effective at making changes). Further on, he goes into significant detail about how he managed the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – notably the failed penalty shootout – because he followed a established procedure, which implies that throwing on young players at the last moment to take the most important attempt of their lives was sensible and accurate.

That approach was proved right by a winning penalty decider against Switzerland at a later tournament after a game where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to wear a pullover the inside out. “Our dominance in that shootout was absolutely exciting,” Southgate writes, amid comparing the performance to elite military units neutralizing a high-profile target. Dear me.

Withheld Details

When we do get close to a disclosure, the manager retreats from specifying people or providing the substance. We learn there were challenging England individuals who insisted on more focus, maybe because they were spoilt during the beginning of their professional journeys. But as you anticipate eagerly, he is already veering off into a topic named a leadership concept, which asserts that as opposed to a collection of characteristics or principles, team environment is in fact an element that is formed by, unfortunately, enough, no more.

Notable Sections

Within the more compelling bits are when Southgate discusses about the gradual nature of building mental toughness in young people, or how he attempted to articulate what it means to be English more clearly and more positively than any other figure in the spotlight. The standout section, there is a truly gripping description of that distressing match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s black players were subjected to vile treatment (and subsequently defended vigorously by their coach).

Genuine Ending

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Abigail Rose
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